Desperate with Desire, Tormented by Timidity!

For husbands with secret, cuckold desire based on their diminutive penis, sexual honesty requires admitting three truths.

1] Your reluctance to tell your wife of your desire symbolizes DEEP insecurities.

2] Your wife’s discovery of your cuckold desire would be a HUGE relief for you!

Fearful Insecurity ... HUGE Relief. Fearful Insecurity ... HUGE Relief.

You NEED to Tell Her

Deep down, many small husbands want and need to come clean and level with their wives about this cuckold need. As one small husband said:

‘I'm 42 and married. My wife has never discussed penis size with me but I'd love to (we'd have to be pretty wasted).

She has no idea that I'm the guy hugging the porcelain in public restrooms because my size is "la puny mushroom."

Do I look? Of course! And every so often, I'm shamed, exhilarated, validated-WHATEVER- by a glimpse of much more than I'll ever have.

What would my wife think or say if she knew that I peek compulsively and am insecure? I wonder. I’m thinking of telling her (a bit at a time) to get her reactions and comments.  Any suggestions on how to do it?’

Yes. But for now, read what another guy said when asked... “would you dare to show your wife internet pix of guys in the ‘wonder of nature’ class, and see where that leads?”

His reply?

‘The thought turns me on now but my wife has never seen or touched another cock but mine; what if she really got curious after seeing pics of ones bigger than me? Plus she might tease me afterwards. I would like to somehow maybe get her to see a few pics though just out of curiosity.'

See how boys with tiny toys talk?
In just a few lines, we get…

She has no idea...

We’ve never talked about it...

The thought turns me on but…

What if she really got curious...

Shamed, exhilarated, validated...

I would like to somehow maybe...

What if she teased me afterwards...

Any suggestions on how to tell her…

I want her reactions and comments...

Pix...just a few...to see her reaction…

Never talked about…but I’d love to…
I compulsively peak and am insecure...

I’m thinking of telling her–a bit at a time...

Sense a little insecurity here? 

Compulsive fascination? 

Anguish? 

Many small-endowed men are consumed by fantasies of being cuckolded.
They fantasize of their wife with a man who has a truly man-sized penis.

He DREADS Your Discovery!

Many small husbands want desperately to explain this issue their wife.
But they're also terrified at her potential reaction!

What if she teases me–-isn’t that just like a little boy!

What if she saw a real man and “got really curious?”

Well so what if she "got really curious?" 

Small men certainly respond to this! And it's not by decision or choice. It's extremely and inescapably erotic. It's a reaction. It is completely compulsory and he is utterly helpless to 'turn it off.'

If it's fine for Mr. Little, why not Mrs. Little? Why can't she at least be aware of it? Why the hypocrisy? Why the double standard?

'Oh but if she knew how men are, what other men are like, how could I compete?'

That's the kicker.

And it brings us to a number of issues. Why? Having a small penis does weird things to men. They're listed here for all wives to read.

• A small penis makes many men feel deeply and shamefully unmanly.
• A small penis makes many men keenly aware of their sexual limitations. 
• A small penis makes many men feel awed by very well-endowed men.
• A small penis makes many men highly susceptible to cuckold fantasies.
• A small penis makes many men extremely aroused by potential cuckolding.
• A small penis makes many men's sexual honesty impossibly difficult.
• A small penis makes many men vulnerable to his wife's sexual direction.

Note well -- a small penis MAKES under-endowed men feel these things.

In so many cases, they simply can't help it. They're powerless NOT to react those ways; it's like their diminutive size programs them for it!

Most husbands act decisively if some man makes overtures toward his wife.But if a wife is approached by a virile man that he knows is very well-endowed, a really small husband' may be unable to intervene and stop his own cuckolding. At the very least, his ability to 'protect his interests' may be very seriously sabotaged. 

There are several possible reasons for this.

1] He may be so overwhelmed by feelings of submissiveness that he can't mount any real or effective resistance.

2] He may fear provoking a sexual contest that he can only lose. He may fear being 'outed' if he tries to stop her seduction. The stud may say, 'my dick is thicker than your hubby's wrist!' As shame and inferiority multiplies, the stud explains hubby's cuckold desires and penis size issues to his wife. He points to his tiny erection and uses this to educate and seduce his wife. Non-resistance may be hubby's 'safest' route.

3] To his own, astonished horror, he may be so profoundly aroused by it that as to be paralyzed into inaction. He is powerless to compete and helpless to stop it!

And just knowing these things can be VERY empowering to wives of under-endowed men.

Stuck Between Insecurity and Relief

Men with tiny sex organs are hyper-aware of their sexual limitations. Closely related is their complete lack of courage to discuss these things with his wife. At the same time, that despised timidity confirms their own sense of a lack of manliness.

This leads to an intriguing question. It's one that meagerly-endowed husbands ought to consider. This is unless you're the wife, and then maybe YOU should ask it: 

With which is it easier to live:

• Fearful insecurity with no escape OR
• Risk with a potential for HUGE relief?

Tiny husbands often want desperately to share their feelings with they woman love. But they are terrified to start that conversation!

Typically, such guys not only NEED this discussion, they deeply BELIEVE all these things. But he fears his wife may take real offense at his feelings. He fears she won't take this seriously. And he fears that she will take it very seriously.

Under-endowed men know that their small penis issues translate into immense, sexual power for wives IF they understand the issues. Whether or not wives use this knowledge, just knowing it gives wives enormous sexual power. That puts small men in a powerful, erotic bind.

On one hand, he craves for his wife to be a sexually powerful woman. That arouses him supremely! But he is also terrified that she'll put her new-found discoveries to the test! Yet her exploring his issues will arouse him even more! And that flaming arousal in turn predisposes him to ACCEPT her continued exploration of his small penis issues!

The combination of fear and burning desire is extremely erotic for under-endowed men. This circle of fear and arousal confirms everything he believes about his own inadequacy. That makes his beliefs even more compelling and real! The husband with a childishly small penis is caught in multiple submissive and erotic binds from which there is no escape. 

He can't give women what well-endowed men do because he doesn't have it to give. He believes it's natural and almost inevitable that well-endowed men pair with powerful, sexually aggressive women. Yet the idea of a powerful, sexually aggressive wife enthralls him. No matter what he does, he can't shake these feelings and dynamics. 

He desires desperately to discuss this. But timidity cows him into silence. He craves it, yet recoils from it. It's tormenting and very unmanly. And astonishingly, it's due entirely to his having a tiny penis.

Wouldn’t honesty be easier?

Wouldn't honesty be better?

Why not get this into the open and be done with it? 

And really, shouldn’t wives know? Most know or suspect anyway.

It's Time to Act

Why prolong this with the "thousand hints" path? Isn't this "official secret" a heavy burden? Why agonize endlessly over a little penis?

Men loathe compulsive insecurity. The only manly way forward is to move from fearful insecurity to disclosure. And that would be a HUGE relief. Small men must face this hurdle to mature in their manhood. There IS no other way forward.

This brings us to the third truth required of little guys with secret, cuckold desires.

3. Honesty means being man enough to tell her about your cuckold fantasy!

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Touch any nerves? Do you know that should read this? Suppose your wife discovered this page. Would you find this a little unsettling? Would you be aroused by it? Imagine finding this on the computer screen and her asking your thoughts on it. Imagine getting an instant erection, and her asking you to explain what that meant.

Again, suppose that a man who finds your attractive wife attractive reads this blog. Why wouldn't he email her the link to this page? Or perhaps you WISH someone would send her that link, because you HAVE to discuss this -- but jam EVERY time you try to raise it.

In the end, there is this about the 'small penis as an official secret:'

• Staying where you are isn't manly.
• It disgusts you, and rightly so.
• Chances are, she'll be better with it than you.
• You ache for this HUGE relief.

So what is your next move? Why not post a reply?