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Not Fishy Enough: A Ridiculous Parable About Finding Worth Through Self-Acceptance Kindle Edition

by Briton Kolber (Author), Nicoleta Dabija (Illustrator), Cara M. Jones (Editor) Format: Kindle Edition
4.7 out of 5 stars 53
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"Holy freakin' snail shells! What is this book?" asked Edwin.
This is a combination of a slightly short novel for kids over 8 and a self-help guide for the people who care about them.
This story is about Edwin. He is an odd-looking fish. At least that’s what everybody tells him. Well, they tell him he’s a fish, anyway. Not much of a tail for a fish. The scales are wrong, too. The fins are a bit, well, grabby. More on that later.
"Wait what? Tell me now," demanded Edwin.
Sorry, Edwin, you'll spoil the adventure.
"Fine. I'm out of here."
Now that he's out of earshot, I can tell you that it's about a crab adopted by fish growing up in an isolated tidepool with no other crabs. So, he grows up thinking he is merely an incompetent fish.
There is a section in the back of the book with discussion questions for many of the themes in this book. The questions are designed for classrooms, for mental health professionals, and for caregivers in general. In these pages, is an adventure of aquatic proportions. It’s about finding out who you are and figuring out what to do about that.
This highly unusual, but hopefully not too unusual, book is by Briton Kolber, a licensed therapist who specializes in helping geeks accept and find the best in themselves. In a world that may remind you of Finding Nemo, it explores themes found in The Ugly Duckling, Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, and Brené Brown's The Gifts of Imperfection. If you are a fan of the pragmatic wisdom of Brené Brown or the humor of Terry Pratchett, Douglas Adams, or Christopher Healy (The Hero’s Guide to Saving Your Kingdom) you will have a good time here. Illustrations by Nicoleta Dabija add wonder and whimsy.
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  1. Reading age
    8 - 12 years, from customers
  2. Print length
    121 pages
  3. Language
    English
  4. Grade level
    3 - 12
  5. Publication date
    December 1, 2022
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  • This is not a tale about any one problem, or any one way of not-fitting-in. It is about the experience of a little being who does not fit in, despite heroic efforts to do so, and about the kind (and sometimes scary) actions of others who help him to know himself as he truly is. In the second half, the author makes equally heroic efforts to affirm whatever dearly-held preconceptions a reader might have, and gently suggests that holding those preconceptions tightly might not be the only way to live. As a grown-up, I connected to the second half better - though my inner kid liked the humor in the tale! -Amanda Franklin, M Ed., LMHC Faculty Antioch University Seattle (Retired)
  • " Not Fishy Enough is a parable about how many individuals experience the social media age. Modern life and ancient beliefs have collided to make us feel distant from others and from ourselves. We are constantly asking, 'What am I here for?' and 'Where do I fit in?'. Not Fishy Enough goes a long way to providing us insight that just might help us find those answers, simply and elegantly."- William R. Dodson, Author of Virtually International
  • This book is obviously a labor of love and the story is very impactful. I fully believe you'll be able to get this out in the world and it will make a difference in the lives of many kids and their families. There are so many crucial messages in there that kids (0-100) need to hear and consider. (Jill Hayes)


--This text refers to the paperback edition.

About the Author

Briton Kolber is a family therapist specializing in geeks as a special population. He has taught Applied Improvisation at SAGA School, General Assembly, and Aspiring Youth / Ryther. He has done many odd things ranging from Research Scientist Associate at Applied Research Laboratories to Board Member of Washington Association for Marriage and Family Therapy to computer sales to performing regularly with ComedySportz Austin to working in the film industry in Los Angeles. In what little free time he has left after grand adventures with his family, he runs, skis, writes sketch comedy, has conversations with his cats, and tries not to set himself on fire while cooking. Again. --This text refers to the paperback edition.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0BKKFLM3K
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ (December 1, 2022)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ December 1, 2022
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 13084 KB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Sticky notes ‏ : ‎ On Kindle Scribe
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 121 pages
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.7 out of 5 stars 53

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Briton Kolber is a family therapist specializing in geeks as a special population. He has taught Applied Improvisation at SAGA School, General Assembly, and Aspiring Youth / Ryther. He has done many odd things ranging from Research Scientist Associate at Applied Research Laboratories to Board Member of Washington Association for Marriage and Family Therapy to computer sales to performing regularly with ComedySportz Austin to working in the film industry in Los Angeles. In what little free time he has left after grand adventures with his family, he runs, skis, writes sketch comedy, has conversations with his cats, and tries not to set himself on fire while cooking. Again.

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4.7 out of 5 stars
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Cristina T.
5.0 out of 5 stars Embracing the Unusual: A Tale of Self-Discovery
Reviewed in the United States on March 15, 2024
"Not Fishy Enough: A Ridiculous Parable About Finding Worth Through Self-Acceptance," authored by Briton Kolber, MA, LMFT, is a touching story centered around Edwin, a distinctive fish embarking on a journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Through his adventures beyond his tide pool, Edwin encounters various challenges and revelations that lead him to accept his true identity as a crab, rather than a fish. This narrative is cleverly used as a metaphor for identity, acceptance, and the courage required to embrace one's authenticity.

Structured into chapters, the book is not just a story but also a reflective tool, offering sections for discussion and personal growth. It addresses themes of feeling different, the importance of self-acceptance, curiosity, and resilience, making it suitable for young readers and a wider audience. The illustrations by Nicoleta Dabija add a vibrant layer to the story.

Kolber's thoughtful approach to themes such as belief, religion, and his openness about his personal experiences with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) add depth to the book, promoting empathy and understanding. While the black and white illustrations in the PDF version were a minor disappointment, the book's strengths in storytelling, character development, and its handling of sensitive topics more than compensate.

I highly recommend this book for children, adults, educators, and therapists. It's a compelling read that explores themes of identity, acceptance, and personal growth. I've given it a 5 out of 5 stars rating because of its effective storytelling, engaging narrative, and its remarkable ability to convey complex themes in a way that's accessible to all.
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jcarmc
5.0 out of 5 stars Dive into the Best Fish Tale Ever
Reviewed in the United States on April 5, 2024
Kolber uses this endearing fishy tale to help children unpack uncomfortable feelings and discuss ways to feel better about themselves. The author designed the book in two parts. The first part is a story for children to read. The second part is for adults. It contains a self-help guide with questions to help the children deal with the themes covered in the book.

The book deals with the following themes: fear of the unknown, beliefs, shame, body-image, identity, belonging, friends, and self-worth. By the ages of nine and ten, today’s children are dealing with these big issues. This book is here to help us navigate these troubled waters.

I recommend this book for adults and for supervised children over eight years old. To acknowledge potential emotional triggers, adults need to know that the book deals with the themes of adoption and gender identity.
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Nqobile
4.0 out of 5 stars Embracing uniqueness
Reviewed in the United States on April 4, 2024
Kolber’s approach to addressing issues of self-worth, identity, and self-acceptance using parables is commendable. This approach draws in the target audience and engages them in an age-appropriate manner. As a qualified and highly experienced family therapist, Kolber has successfully blended his love for stories and passion for his profession to deliver this exceptional book. This book channels the reader to introspect and grow. The questions at the end of each topic guide and empower the reader to implement various strategies to help them overcome their challenges.
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Brittany Arendse
5.0 out of 5 stars Review of Not Fishy Enough
Reviewed in the United States on April 3, 2024
"Not Fishy Enough" by Briton Kolber is a delightful exploration of self-worth and acceptance, following the journey of Edwin, an adopted sea creature, as he grapples with his identity in a tide pool that serves as his entire world. Despite the support of his family and friend Riley, Edwin struggles to fit in due to his unique physical attributes. As he embarks on a journey of self-discovery, encountering eccentric characters like Daedalus and Otto, Edwin confronts his beliefs and navigates themes of worthiness, friendship, and body positivity. The book's interactive discussion section and reflective questions offer valuable tools for readers to explore these themes further. With charming characters and insightful storytelling, "Not Fishy Enough" earns a well-deserved 5 out of 5 stars, providing invaluable lessons for readers of all ages.
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Leia Temple
5.0 out of 5 stars A Thoroughly Written Book on Otherness and Self-Acceptance
Reviewed in the United States on March 29, 2024
Growing up, we've all struggled with comparing ourselves to others, whether it be friends, family, or virtual strangers. Some of us would have struggled further with bullying and feelings of being different, like the odd one out. In this children's book, the protagonist feels the same way. His support group, family and friend, both encourage him to ignore those feelings and hide himself under a facade. Edwin, the main character, eventually journeys outside of his comfort zone and into the wider world to find "fish" just like him. There, he learns to accept himself and others soon follow suit. This was a great children's book that tackles so many vital themes that many other books in the genre simply don't. I rated it a solid 5 out of stars and I think all children who are at a sensitive time in their childhood or adolescence should read it.
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Adesuwa Ero
5.0 out of 5 stars Inspiring read
Reviewed in the United States on April 14, 2024
Briton Kolber's "Not Fishy Enough" masterfully navigates the theme of self-acceptance through Edwin's journey, resonating with readers of all ages. With engaging characters and a seamless blend of humor and profound lessons, it's a heartwarming and inspiring read. Rated 5/5.
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Hager Salem
3.0 out of 5 stars Good idea but can criticized
Reviewed in the United States on April 9, 2024
I really liked the idea of the book. It adopts the concept of telling a story to reach something. The story is followed by a whole section for discussions. It is in the form of questions that can create good and fruitful discussions. The book promotes self love and acceptance. My only concern came when the book offered some ideas like gender choices and sexual orientation that are not suitable for children from my opinion. Those ideas are ok to discuss with grown ups who have the full ability to judge things properly. I believe the book can have two versions one for children and the other for kids, each with the suitable ideas for the target audience.
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R J
5.0 out of 5 stars A metaphorical book that amazes all
Reviewed in India on March 8, 2024
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We all want to fit into the societal molds. But what happens when we fail? How to cope with that? How to accept our true selves? Read this metaphor-rich book to find out how Edwin learns to be himself. A great adventure awaits him once he embraces himself. A great read for all.
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Jaituni
4.0 out of 5 stars Not Fishy Enough?
Reviewed in India on March 20, 2024
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“Not fishy enough” is a wonderful blend of fiction and self-help, following the unconventional crab Edwin as he navigates identity and acceptance underwater. With humor and allegorical depth reminiscent of popular stories like “Rudolph the red-nosed reindeer” and “Yertle the turtle,” the author weaves a narrative that is rich and prompts reflection and discussion. Themes of identity, acceptance, and courage are also explored through Edwin’s journey, complemented by engaging characters and an intriguing underwater realm. The post story interactive section further encourages introspection on topics like body acceptance and gender norms. While the writing style may have room for improvement, the book’s profound exploration of self-acceptance makes it a compelling read for both children and adults earning a solid four out of five stars from my side.
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