Silver Hair on the Silver Screen

INSERT DESCRIPTIONFrom left: Laura Linney and Philip Bosco in “The Savages,” Jack Nicholson in “About Schmidt,” and Gordon Pinsent and Julie Christie in “Away from Her.” (Andrew Schwartz/Fox Searchlight Pictures, New Line Productions, Michael Gibson/Lionsgate)

As the population inexorably grows older, will there be more movies about aging?

Below is a list of Dr. Dennis McCullough’s favorite films on the subject, listed in an appendix to his new book, “My Mother, Your Mother: Embracing ‘Slow Medicine,’ the Compassionate Approach to Caring for Your Aging Loved Ones,’’ and updated on his Web site.

Dr. McCullough, whose book is as valuable a resource as any I’ve found, commends the movies below for their “gentle, deeply feeling and often funny portrayals of aging.” Please add your favorites to the list — and television shows as well — particularly those that are realistic, rather than treacly — about the the last stage of life, for both the aged themselves and those who love and tend to them. Click on the movie titles to read New York Times Reviews and more.

Umberto D. (1952, Dir. Vittorio De Sica)
Wild Strawberries (1957, Ingmar Bergman)
On Golden Pond (1981, Mark Rydell)
The Trip to Bountiful (1985, Peter Masterson)
Foxfire (1987, Jud Taylor)
The Whales of August (1987, Lindsay Anderson)
Everybody’s Fine (1990, Giuseppe Tornatore)
The Company of Strangers (1991, Cynthia Scott)
Wrestling Ernest Hemingway
(1993, Randa Haines)
To Dance With the White Dog (1994, Glenn Jordan)
Buena Vista Social Club (1998, Wim Wenders)
The Straight Story (1999, David Lynch)
Innocence (2000, Paul Cox)
Iris (2001, Richard Eyre)
About Schmidt (2002, Alexander Payne)
Secondhand Lions (2003, Tim McCanlies)
Mrs. Palfrey at the Claremont (2005, Dan Ireland)
Aurora Borealis (2004, James Burke)
The Savages (2007, Tamara Jenkins)
Away From Her (2006, Sarah Polley)

Follow-up note: Dozens of you wrote in this past week with additional movie suggestions. To see the list and to nominate more, click here.

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“The Company of Strangers” on the list above is also known as “Strangers in Good Company.” It’s a wonderful film from the UK with a cast of older women, and dialogue that is partly ad-libbed. It’s about a busload of women who become stranded out in the country. As they wait for help, they talk about their lives.

“The Notebook”

“Ikiru,” by Akira Kurosawa.

“Driving Miss Daisy” with Jessica Tandy and Morgan Freeman, and a TV movie some years ago called “White Mama” and starring Bette Davis
There was another good TV movie starring Julie Andrews and James Garner, but I can’t remember the title

“Harry and Tonto”.

Add “Young At Heart” — fantastic new movie about old people’s chorus that performs very cool music to great acclaim, including to an audience of prison inmates.

“Madadayo” by Akira Kurosawa is one of the most counter Hollywood films I know of, and a wonderfully insightful portrayal of someone refusing to consider old age “the final years”

“All Passion Spent” — a mid-80s Masterpiece Theatre production starring Wendy Hiller as an 85-year-old aristocratic widow finally living life her way after her husband dies. Production values a bit dated, but the acting is superb and by the end of part 1, I was hooked and watched all three parts in one viewing.

Silver hair on the silver screen; better on the screen than on my scalp.

Thanks for the reminder.

I just scheduled my 6-week root touch up with my colorist. :)

I never Sang For my Father
Mame

“Love in the Time of Cholera”

“Lonesome Dove”
“No Country for Old Men”

“December Flower,” a made-for-British-TV movie from the mid-eighties, directed by Stephen Frears, and starring Mona Washbourne and Jean Simmons. Unflinching, but wonderful.

Saraband (2005, Ingmar Bergman). This is Bergman’s last movie and the epilogue to his ‘Scenes From a Marriage’. Stephen Holden said it best: “As you watch his swan song, which stars Liv Ullmann and Erland Josephson, playing the embattled ex-spouses Johan and Marianne 30 years after “Scenes From a Marriage,” you feel the crushing weight of time pressing in around them. These solemn, world-weary characters rummaging through the past are still possessed by their nagging inner demons.”

If you’ve never seen “Make Way for Tomorrow,” a 1937 film with Victor Moore and Beulah Bondi, rent it. Accurate, sad depiction of an elderly couple whose children no longer have any use for them.

Love Among the Ruins (1975, George Cukor) was a lovely television film with Laurence Olivier and Katherine Hepburn which treated the subject of aging with grace and humor. Not sure if it is available in any form, but if it can be found it’s worth watching.

“Boynton Beach Club”

Cocoon was also great. Stellar cast!

Calgary

To Beth: could you be talking about the 1999 movie titled One Special Night in which James Garner is on his way home from visiting his wife in the hospital during a snowstorm, and Julie Andrews plays the doctor who gives him a ride?

Young at Heart (DVD will be out in September)

“Venus” starring Peter O’Toole.

Pretty much the whole later career of the Japanese filmmaker Yasujiro Ozu ought to be on the list, as should Leo McCarey’s Make Way For Tomorrow.

Calendar Girls!

Nobody’s Fool…A GREAT film with lots of silver including Bosco, Paul Newman and Jessica Tandy in her final role and several different ageing issues. (Also, on the flip side, a baby Phillip Seymore Hoffman.)