My name is Kathie and I live in Fredericksburg, VA. My husband has
been a Naval Officer for 25 years, which may have a little
to do with our 18 year old son, Trent, joining the delayed entry
program for the Marines in June 2003, then just 17 years old.. He was
shipped off to boot camp June 2004. About two months before leaving he began to
have second thoughts about his decision, but was told by his recruiter that she
would not let him out of his obligation and that he had to go. While at boot
camp he became depressed and experienced anxiety. Most of his letters home were
hard for me to read, as he spoke of how much he did not want to be in the
military. As he went through training and was exposed to the marine corps kill,
kill, kill mentality, he became aware that shooting and killing was not
something he could do, but felt trapped with no one to talk to. He graduated on
Sept 10, 2004 and came home for leave. He was depressed and confused and
was sent to see a chaplain and a mental health counselor at Quantico Marine
base. He wanted out of the military after realizing that the whole way of life
was not for him and never would be. He had to report to Camp Lejeune Sept 28.
While home he heard about conscientious objectors. He did not know that people
in the military who opposed killing might, if they are lucky, be discharged due
to their feelings. He is supposed to start training next week for infantry, but
doesn't want to be in training to kill others. He has been told that next week
he will be thrown in jail if he refuses. I wanted to get his story out in
hopes of getting him some support from others. He is against the war and killing
and is willing to go to jail to stand up for his beliefs. I do fear for his
safety as he was punched in the face two days ago by a fellow Marine. He had to
go to the hospital for stitches. Thank you for your time.
Sincerely,
Kathie